Not My Feet Only, but Also My Hands and My Head

Ponder these verses from

John 13:

3 Jesus knowing that the Father had given all things into his hands, and that he was come from God, and went to God;
4 He riseth from supper, and laid aside his garments; and took a towel, and girded himself.
5 After that he poureth water into a basin, and began to wash the disciples’ feet, and to wipe them with the towel wherewith he was girded.
6 Then cometh he to Simon Peter: and Peter saith unto him, Lord, dost thou wash my feet?
7 Jesus answered and said unto him, What I do thou knowest not now; but thou shalt know hereafter.
8 Peter saith unto him, Thou shalt never wash my feet. Jesus answered him, If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me.
9 Simon Peter saith unto him, Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and my head.

What do these verses teach about our need to be vulnerable and allow others to serve us?

Ministering as the Savior Did

We are taught our whole lives to love one another, to get outside ourselves and serve, that we are God’s hands on the earth. I have been the recipient if service enough times to realize how important these things are, but for the longest time I felt guilty because I never felt like I was serving because I wasn’t organizing or being involved in big organized projects. It wasn’t until recently that I finally realized what it meant to follow Christ’s example in the way we minister.

I’m not sure what it was that brought the epiphany I had. It was probably a combination of reading about His life in the gospels again combined with other articles on service, but suddenly a lightbulb came on for me. Our Savior was never involved in big organized projects, He served as He went. He saw a need and He filled it. And generally these opportunities came as He was on His way to somewhere else. With this understanding also came a realization that there have probably been many opportunities to serve in my life that I have bypassed because I was too focused on the next place I was going or the next project I was wrapped up in.

Understanding that the little things we do to make another’s life easier are the essence of service has really been a game changer for me. It has created a desire in me to be more aware of those opportunities throughout the day. It has made me want to slow down a little and pay more attention to the whispers that come showing me the needs around me. It has helped me feel validated in the little things I do to show love to those around me. Now I feel great when I take an hour to listen to a friend vent, or go out of my way to write a note and create a special treat for one of my kids who is having a hard week, or take the afternoon and spend some quality time with my husband. I have begun to see the time I invest in facilitating my scripture study or writing for my blog as opportunities to serve as I share God’s word and love with those who read my testimony. I never really saw these as service before, and as good as it is to be part of big organized service projects, better understanding Christ’s way of ministering helps me to recognize that maybe service in the little things along our daily path are just as important, if not more so.

Serving in the Savior’s way means keeping our eyes and our hearts open to see a need and fill it, just like He did.