9 Use hospitality one to another without grudging.
Day 5 Challenge Video by Oléa:
Day 5 Challenge Video by Oléa:
As we work on changing the neuropathways of I mind I want to share “The Coin Theory” with you. I was taught this theory a few years ago when I was going through a particularly hard time and the negative in my life was almost crushing. The counselor I was working with at the time shared it with me and I think of it often… If I were to give you a coin and ask you to look at the heads and tails of it at the same time, could you? No. Of course not. You have to choose which side you will focus on. Just because you focus on the heads side of the coin does not make the tails side disappear. It is still there. You are just choosing to dismiss it. The same would go for the other side of a coin. We have the same choice throughout each day of our life. There is both positive and negative that will happen each day. We can choose to focus on the positive or the negative. Just because we choose to focus on the positive does not mean the negative is not there. It simply means we are dismissing it and not giving it power over us.
Song: Thank You for Everything by Jason Gray
Day 2 Challenge Video by Oléa:
36 ¶ And one of the Pharisees desired him that he would eat with him. And he went into the Pharisee’s house, and sat down to meat.
37 And, behold, a woman in the city, which was a sinner, when she knew that Jesus sat at meat in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster box of ointment,
38 And stood at his feet behind him weeping, and began to wash his feet with tears, and did wipe them with the hairs of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment.
39 Now when the Pharisee which had bidden him saw it, he spake within himself, saying, This man, if he were a prophet, would have known who and what manner of woman this is that toucheth him: for she is a sinner.
40 And Jesus answering said unto him, Simon, I have somewhat to say unto thee. And he saith, Master, say on.
41 There was a certain creditor which had two debtors: the one owed five hundred pence, and the other fifty.
42 And when they had nothing to pay, he frankly forgave them both. Tell me therefore, which of them will love him most?
43 Simon answered and said, I suppose that he, to whom he forgave most. And he said unto him, Thou hast rightly judged.
44 And he turned to the woman, and said unto Simon, Seest thou this woman? I entered into thine house, thou gavest me no water for my feet: but she hath washed my feet with tears, and wiped them with the hairs of her head.
45 Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet.
46 My head with oil thou didst not anoint: but this woman hath anointed my feet with ointment.
47 Wherefore I say unto thee, Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little.
48 And he said unto her, Thy sins are forgiven.
49 And they that sat at meat with him began to say within themselves, Who is this that forgiveth sins also?
50 And he said to the woman, Thy faith hath saved thee; go in peace.
This story is precious to me for a many different reasons, I will share three. I am amazed at the courage displayed by this woman to enter a home knowing how she was defined by those in her community because of her past mistakes. But she didn’t care. She cared much more about what Jesus thought of her than what anyone else did. I have carried my own heavy burdens of sin and I remember a particular time thinking, “What if people find out?” A few moments later I was led by the Spirit to a scripture that in essence said, “If you can stand before God at the last day with clean hands and a pure heart, what else matters?” This woman had learned that lesson and her story teaches us the same thing.
It is so obvious that she loved Jesus with her whole heart and truly understood His mission. She had faith in who He was and in what was necessary for Him to do to fulfill His purpose. She did more than just profess her belief vocally, but also acted on it by giving of her substance, love, and humility in a way that could be recognized by the Savior, by everyone else watching, and by those who would read her story for thousands of years.
Another reason why I love this story is how clearly it shows the tenderness of the Savior towards one who is remorseful and repentant. He knew what the other people in the room were thinking of her and He told them to leave her alone. He told them that He was well aware of her sins but that her love had more than made up for them. She was forgiven because she loved much! I see her example and I feel hope. Loving well is something each of us can do. We can love our Savior and care more about what He thinks of us than anyone else. We can show our love for Him by loving others and showing mercy to them. And honestly, I believe that is all God expects of us, to do our best and to love much. Because of this story, that has been my motto for many years now… Love much and do what you can do. I believe there is great mercy in that objective.
Song: Loving My Jesus
He Means Me
Soul Searching Question: What can you do to show your love for the Savior and an understanding of His mission? How can you better show your love for Him?
10 ¶ And, behold, there was a man which had his hand withered. And they asked him, saying, Is it lawful to heal on the sabbath days? that they might accuse him.
11 And he said unto them, What man shall there be among you, that shall have one sheep, and if it fall into a pit on the sabbath day, will he not lay hold on it, and lift it out?
12 How much then is a man better than a sheep? Wherefore it is lawful to do well on the sabbath days.
13 Then saith he to the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it forth; and it was restored whole, like as the other.
1 And he entered again into the synagogue; and there was a man there which had a withered hand.
2 And they watched him, whether he would heal him on the sabbath day; that they might accuse him.
3 And he saith unto the man which had the withered hand, Stand forth.
4 And he saith unto them, Is it lawful to do good on the sabbath days, or to do evil? to save life, or to kill? But they held their peace.
5 And when he had looked round about on them with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts, he saith unto the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it out: and his hand was restored whole as the other.
6 And it came to pass also on another sabbath, that he entered into the synagogue and taught: and there was a man whose right hand was withered.
7 And the scribes and Pharisees watched him, whether he would heal on the sabbath day; that they might find an accusation against him.
8 But he knew their thoughts, and said to the man which had the withered hand, Rise up, and stand forth in the midst. And he arose and stood forth.
9 Then said Jesus unto them, I will ask you one thing; Is it lawful on the sabbath days to do good, or to do evil? to save life, or to destroy it?
10 And looking round about upon them all, he said unto the man, Stretch forth thy hand. And he did so: and his hand was restored whole as the other.
21 Jesus answered and said unto them, I have done one work, and ye all marvel.
22 Moses therefore gave unto you circumcision; (not because it is of Moses, but of the fathers;) and ye on the sabbath day circumcise a man.
23 If a man on the sabbath day receive circumcision, that the law of Moses should not be broken; are ye angry at me, because I have made a man every whit whole on the sabbath day?
24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
There are stories in each of the Gospels of Jesus healing on the Sabbath. I do not believe this is an insignificant thing. The traditions of their time were so concrete. Christ bucked the system and this enraged the leaders of the day. I have always told my kids that anger is a secondary emotion to a bigger underlying emotion. I believe these men were scared. They were scared of change. They were scared of losing their status and their influence over the people. They were scared to believe that the new teachings might apply to them. This fear paralyzed them. It kept them from leaving their comfort zone. It kept them from progressing spiritually. It kept them from reaching out to others who needed them. And clearly it kept them from feeling the Spirit witness of truth. Through His healing power and acts, our Savior was giving people back their lives! And these men were so caught up in their rules and letter of the law that they had no compassion for the people hurting right in front of them or these miraculous changes that were happening right before their eyes.
Do we allow some of these fears to affect us? Do we allow ourselves to get so caught up in the traditions of our culture (even within our church) to the point that we are incapable of leaving our boxes, of seeing needs that are outside those perceived lines? Do we become so ingrained in the culture of our religion that we cannot feel the Spirit calling to us for change or redirection? Cannot feel the promptings asking us to act in behalf of someone else?
Love Them Like Jesus
Believe, Love, Do
Soul searching Question: How can you demonstrate that people are more important than traditions or routines today?
1 Jesus went unto the mount of Olives.
2 And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.
3 And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,
4 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
6 This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.
7 So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
8 And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground.
9 And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst.
10 When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
11 She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
My heart breaks for this poor woman. How humiliating to be drug into a crowd with all of your sins and shortcomings showing. She must have been so ashamed. She must have been terrified knowing the prescribed punishment for her sin. Then to be shown the tender mercy of Christ. The compassion of our champion is something to be rejoiced! Especially because that mercy is not reserved for this woman alone, but is extended to each of us. How relieved she must have been to hear the dull thud of the rocks as they dropped to the ground one by one.
I too have felt the gentle hand of Christ’s kindness rest upon my head when I was completely unworthy of it. He has pulled me up out of the dirt, dusted me off and sent me lovingly on my way. His mercy and compassion are offered freely with only one thing asked in return… that we likewise extend love and compassion to those around us. None of us is without sin. None of us justified in judging another. The rocks we so carelessly toss around we do at our own peril. Our Savior loves us perfectly and expects us to give freely of our love and kindness in return.
Everyone of us is doing the best we can. Every one of us falls short. Every one of us desires understanding and mercy for our mistakes and weaknesses. Can we really offer any less than we desire?
Soul Searching Question:
How can you show compassion towards someone today?
1 And again he entered into Capernaum after some days; and it was noised that he was in the house.
2 And straightway many were gathered together, insomuch that there was no room to receive them, no, not so much as about the door: and he preached the word unto them.
3 And they come unto him, bringing one sick of the palsy, which was borne of four.
4 And when they could not come nigh unto him for the press, they uncovered the roof where he was: and when they had broken it up, they let down the bed wherein the sick of the palsy lay.
5 When Jesus saw their faith, he said unto the sick of the palsy, Son, thy sins be forgiven thee.
6 But there were certain of the scribes sitting there, and reasoning in their hearts,
7 Why doth this man thus speak blasphemies? who can forgive sins but God only?
8 And immediately when Jesus perceived in his spirit that they so reasoned within themselves, he said unto them, Why reason ye these things in your hearts?
9 Whether is it easier to say to the sick of the palsy, Thy sins be forgiven thee; or to say, Arise, and take up thy bed, and walk?
10 But that ye may know that the Son of man hath power on earth to forgive sins, (he saith to the sick of the palsy,)
11 I say unto thee, Arise, and take up thy bed, and go thy way into thine house.
12 And immediately he arose, took up the bed, and went forth before them all; insomuch that they were all amazed, and glorified God, saying, We never saw it on this fashion.
This story of friendship is so beautiful to me! I love that these friends didn’t just pray for their friend but acted in his behalf. They carried him to find Jesus. And when the way got rough, they didn’t turn around and go home, they tore the roof apart to get their friend the help he needed. It was their faith and their actions powered by that faith that got their friend where he needed to be to have his life changed for the better. I have been blessed with some amazing friends throughout my life. Friends that have laughed with me, cried with me, stood by me during my darkest times, lifted me with their words, and shown their love through acts of service and sacrifice. I have been blessed with friends that would tear a roof apart for me. I feel truly humbled by their love and their loyalty! Their friendship means the world to me! The way they are makes me want to be a better friend, and not just to them but to everyone. If you have those kinds of friends be sure to thank God for them. If you don’t, be that kind of friend to those around you. You never know what your acts of friendship may mean to someone who needs it. Your sincere acts of love just might allow a miracle to happen in your own life.
Song: Circle of Friends
Friendship: A Gospel Principle
Soul Searching Question:
How can you show faith on behalf of your friends? How can you show friendship towards someone in need?
24 And Jesus went with him; and much people followed him, and thronged him.
25 And a certain woman, which had an issue of blood twelve years,
26 And had suffered many things of many physicians, and had spent all that she had, and was nothing bettered, but rather grew worse,
27 When she had heard of Jesus, came in the press behind, and touched his garment.
28 For she said, If I may touch but his clothes, I shall be whole.
29 And straightway the fountain of her blood was dried up; and she felt in her body that she was healed of that plague.
30 And Jesus, immediately knowing in himself that virtue had gone out of him, turned him about in the press, and said, Who touched my clothes?
31 And his disciples said unto him, Thou seest the multitude thronging thee, and sayest thou, Who touched me?
32 And he looked round about to see her that had done this thing.
33 But the woman fearing and trembling, knowing what was done in her, came and fell down before him, and told him all the truth.
34 And he said unto her, Daughter, thy faith hath made thee whole; go in peace, and be whole of thy plague.
This story has always been one I could vividly visualize! Even in my minimal struggles, I know the toll that physical afflictions can take on a body and finances. It can be so overwhelming! I can imagine myself as this woman, physically afflicted and yearning for healing. Wanting healing so badly that I would crawl through a crowd of people to Jesus. Her faith was so great! She was so certain if she could just His clothes, she would be healed. It must have taken immense effort. She had so much hope in the reaching out. And immediately when she touched the hem of his clothing, she could feel the change come over her. She knew the effort had been worth it!
I can only imagine the fear that came over her when Jesus stopped and asked who had touched Him. I imagine she suddenly had a knot in the pit of her stomach wondering if she had done something wrong, if He would be mad at her. I admire her so much for her courage to speak up and take ownership of her actions, especially not knowing how tender His response would be.
I admit I giggle a little each time I read the very confused response of Christ’s disciples when He asks who touched Him. The saw the size of the crowd. There were being pressed on every side by it. They probably were feeling very lucky not to lose the Savior amongst the mess of people. But Christ’s alertness and sensitivity is so profound to me. He knew someone had reached out to Him with intent. He knew that His power had healed someone. I am absolutely certain that He knew exactly who it was as well. But He gave her the opportunity to connect with Him. He allowed her the precious knowledge that what she had done would have been freely given to her. She never needed to feel guilty about the power she had tapped into. He knew her. He knew her struggles. He knew her yearnings. He knew her faith. And He blessed her for these things, for her efforts. It is such a witness to me that He knows the same things about us and that He also wants to offer us His power and His blessings. We just have to make the effort to reach out!
One Among the Crowd