Joy Journey Day 3: Find Your Purpose

4 Now there are diversities of gifts but the same Spirit.

5 And there are differences of administrations, but the same Lord.

6 And there are diversities of operations, but it is the same God which worketh all in all.

7 But the manifestation of the Spirit is given to every man to profit withal.

8 For to one is given by the Spirit the word of wisdom; to another the word of knowledge by the same Spirit;

9 To another faith by the same Spirit; to another the gifts of healing by the same Spirit;

10 To another the working of miracles; to another prophecy; to another discerning of spirits; to another divers kinds of tongues; to another the interpretation of tongues:

11 But all these worketh that one and the selfsame Spirit, dividing to every man severally as he will.

12 For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ.

13 For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit.

14 For the body is not one member, but many.

Romans 8

28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

Philippians 2

13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.

Ephesians 2

10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.

We are each given special gifts and talents from a loving Father in Heaven to enable us to bless the lives of His other children, those in our sphere of influence. All gifts are important in His kingdom. All help Him fulfill His purposes through us. Our gifts, talents, abilities and unique experiences enable us to serve Him well. When we are able to identify the special needs we are able to meet through these things we have been given, that is called our purpose. Each of us has one. Each of us is accountable for what we do with it. And so… we need to discover and pursue it.

Besides understanding that God has a purpose in mind for us and that we are accountable to Him for, why else is it important for us to discover our purpose? Having a purpose allows us to fully discover joy. The better we live that purpose the more joyful our lives will be. Living our purpose is our unique way to connect with and give back to the world around us. It has been proven that those who find a sense of meaning in life are more productive and less likely to be depressed.

Mark Twain said, “The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why.”

So, how do we figure out what our purpose is? Finding your purpose is a journey. You will not be able to sit down in a day and iron it all out. But there are some exercises you can do to start seeking it out.

The very first thing I would do is go to the Lord and tell Him you earnestly want to know what your purpose is. That you want to know in what way He wants you to make a difference in the lives of His other children.

The next thing I would suggest is some introspection. Start asking yourself questions. I would encourage you to actually write the questions down and give them some thoughtful consideration and then start writing out your answers. You will most likely find that as you write, more thoughts will come to you. Here are a few questions to get you started.

What comes naturally to me?

What am I doing when I feel the greatest joy in my life?

What do others tell me I do well?

What am I often asked to help with?

What makes me feel fulfilled, excited, and inspired?

What makes me feel alive?

What am I passionate about?

What difference do I want to make in the world or the community around me?

Another exercise you can do was developed by Chris and Janet Attwood. It is called a Passion test. Write down this statement and then feel in the blank with a verb. When my life is ideal, I am _________. Do this 15 times. Then look for similarities in the actions you are doing when you feel joy. Then compare the statements against each other and come up with your top 5 list.

After you have some ideas and maybe a list of things you feel would qualify as your purpose, take those things to the Lord. He will be able to help you sort through them and give you more thoughts and feelings to fine tune your journey. This may be quick or it may take a long time. He may need some more time to prepare you for what He has in store for you. I have found that most of the time my answers from the Spirit come one little piece at a time. But I can tell whether or not I am on track by the amount of joy I am feeling.

Another thing to remember is that there is a time and a season for everything under heaven. I know that my purpose 10 years ago when I was in the thick of raising my children is a little different than what I feel compelled to do now. Yet, when I look back over that time I can see how I was being prepared for the broader purpose that I feel now.

In the spring of 2017 I was listening to a religious talk by one of my favorite speakers. The topic was becoming who you are born to be. I listened to it 3 times because I my thoughts kept running away from me as I listened. Every time I listened new information came to my mind and heart. I felt inspired with ideas of needing to pursue different goals than I had been working on. I started feeling called to something bigger and more far reaching than I had currently been involved in. At that point I started a journey of finding my purpose and understanding what God wanted me to do. The more I pondered and prayed about it the more ideas would come to me. Then I received some very concrete answers… and they terrified me! How was it possible to do all that was being asked of me? I remember one morning feeling completely overwhelmed and crying as I prayed asking how God could expect me to do all this when I didn’t even know where to start. I received the sweetest comfort and a very clear answer that I didn’t need to know how. He was preparing me and He would show me the path one step at a time and that He would also show me the when. I am here to tell you that my journey is not over, but I have been shown very clearly each step along the way. The more emphasis I put on my “why” the more doors He has opened to the “how”.

Our Father in Heaven loves us so much! He wants us to have joy in this life. The greatest joy comes from understanding what our purpose here is and working to fulfill that. He will help you get your why if you open the first door by asking Him to help you discover your purpose. Then He will open the path to your how one door at a time. Start by asking some questions. But begin by partnering with God.

Soul Searching Question: What is your purpose?

Song: Gracefully Broken by Matt Redman

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